Today September 16th marks the holiday for our whole nation. Happy Malaysia Day to all Malaysian out there. Yeay I'm so happy that I get to wake up late today. Its going to be a lazy day today. Besides the fact that later at 1 ill be bringing Adrianna to Suria Sabah for Annika's birthday party. Well when it comes to eating I won't reject:-)
I'm just worried that the roads are going to be congested later. There will be marching and army and police trucks in the city since the Whole event is carried out at Padang Merdeka not far from we're going. Fingers crossed that we don't get stuck in the Jam. Happy happy joy joy. Ill do more posting later if I'm up to it. Till then.
Thursday, September 15, 2011
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
When You Over Stay Your Welcome
Its really hard when some people do not understand that the owners of a place need some privacy and that their stay is not welcome anymore. I get so frustrated having some family members who are always at the house. When i say always i mean everyday ok. For the past few months, coming to years this has happened. Its just that theres no privacy for us living in the house to use the living room as we like.
Its so frustrating that i get all moody every time i go back home. Who can stand being locked up in the room 24/7 because if i do go down i see my relatives lying down on the couch and there is no room for me to sit and make myself comfortable. How i dream to have a place of my own. Maybe i can even walk around naked if i really do. That is the kind of comfortableness that i am looking for. Not coming home to a full house and the only time its empty is when my mother goes out or at night which i think is ridiculous.
Its ok to have relatives over once in a while, but not everyday. I tell you i get so fed up i get speechless and i become silent when i am at home. I am no longer the teenage girl who never cared if her privacy was invaded. To be honest its difficult growing up in a family with my mother. She invites everyone to stay with us. Especially her relatives, regardless of thinking through whether her teenage daughter or son back in those days would feel comfortable or not. I used to go out all the time during weekends because i hated being at home. Now that we are all grown up and married the same thing still happens. Its sad but true.
My brother has his freedom now. He is renting an apartment and is living his life privately. While i am still stuck with a life with no privacy. No personal space.
Its so frustrating that i get all moody every time i go back home. Who can stand being locked up in the room 24/7 because if i do go down i see my relatives lying down on the couch and there is no room for me to sit and make myself comfortable. How i dream to have a place of my own. Maybe i can even walk around naked if i really do. That is the kind of comfortableness that i am looking for. Not coming home to a full house and the only time its empty is when my mother goes out or at night which i think is ridiculous.
Its ok to have relatives over once in a while, but not everyday. I tell you i get so fed up i get speechless and i become silent when i am at home. I am no longer the teenage girl who never cared if her privacy was invaded. To be honest its difficult growing up in a family with my mother. She invites everyone to stay with us. Especially her relatives, regardless of thinking through whether her teenage daughter or son back in those days would feel comfortable or not. I used to go out all the time during weekends because i hated being at home. Now that we are all grown up and married the same thing still happens. Its sad but true.
My brother has his freedom now. He is renting an apartment and is living his life privately. While i am still stuck with a life with no privacy. No personal space.
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